Tom, the Brain Tumor Cancer Patient (minus the brain tumor and cancer)

With Both Jenny and Julia, Tom pretended to be fighting with a brain tumor.  They will share their individual stories soon, but the gist is that not long after meeting him, he told them he couldn't date them anymore because he only had months to live.  Knowing most women wouldn't turn their backs on someone they love, this worked well to get the women to devote themselves to him.

With Jenny, he got her to cash in her 401k and go to North Carolina for a month for 'treatment."  He would disappear all day, not letting her join him at the doctors appointments ever.  She would take care of him while he was ill and prepared her children for his ultimate death.  Their relationship ended once she realized he was lying about this...which you will be able to read when she writes that part of her story.

With Sarah, whom he started dating as soon as he ended it with Penny, he told her a few months later that he was sick in a similar way to Penny.  He moved her to NJ, leaving a job and her family behind to go take care of him and be near his family during his 'final days."  He ended his job (you can see his resignation letter below) to spend his final days with her and Sarah even through a party for him to say goodbye to his coworkers, too.  Those pictures are posted below, as well.  Julia ended it with him much the same way as Jenny which she will share in her story.